This might more appropriately be titled "MarriageGuidanceCounsellor".
No one person is ever the sole source of truth.
Ask person "A" - "explain your position" ("B" must remain silent). Now ditto for person "B".
Ask person "A" - "what would it take to convince you that person "B" is right. That is, what FACTS - not opinions - would you need.
Rod Taylor, 29 July 2002
Ditto for person "B".
(last edited July 28, 2002)