If you try to please someone you don't know, you might not please anyone.
If you at least please your self, you at least please one.
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If you are unsure about your ability to please someone you don't know, get to know them. SeekFirstToUnderstand.
This way, you can maybe please two.
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If you can please three, you can please many.
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See also OneUnityTwoDoorThreeMany and TheWinWinScenario.